I am not talking at work. I am talking about stuff around the house, personal stuff and for your kids. Stuff that the mom traditionally used to do. Would you outsource more if you weren’t restricted by finances or a weird sense of mommy guilt or do you enjoy doing the all stuff you do?
This conversation has come up in our family lately. Especially with Little OL’s birthday party. I did it all myself, designed and made the invitations and printables, made the cakes, biscuits and everything else, including the party boxes. I even blew up all the balloons. I however LOVE doing all that stuff (well maybe not the balloons part). I love creating stuff, making stuff and being busy. Mr OL on the other hands says he would gladly pay somebody to do it all. He would prefer just arrive on the day. I have told him that when all she wants to do is go to the Spur or something similar then he and his wallet are on duty.
It got me thinking about other aspects of my life. How much do I outsource and if I outsourced more would it simplify my life and let me get on with doing more stuff I enjoyed or do I really enjoy what it is that I do anyway? I do have a lady that cleans my house; she comes 4 days a week. She does all the cleaning, laundry, ironing etc. But, I have been wondering if I could utilise her time better for example by getting her to prepare the veggies for the evening meal? We also have a garden service that mows our lawn and have had a gardener every other weekend. (He went and got a full time job and we have not found another).
Then there is Little OL’s After Care, I work full time so am in an essence outsourcing the care of my child, prior to her going to day care / school we had a full time nanny/domestic.
There are so many services out there, au pairs, night nurses, transport to after school activities, pre-packed lunches, party planners, pool cleaners - the list is endless. How many of these kinds of services do you use or plan to use as your child gets older or do you feel it your responsibility where feasible to do as much of it as possible?
PS: Sorry about the overuse of the word “outsource”. It’s a hot topic at work too.